Practise the thinking. Keep the judgement.
気遣い — Attentive consideration
きづかい
kizukai
Meaning
Attentive consideration
Original example
細かな気遣いがうれしかったです。
I appreciated the thoughtful attention to small details.
Cultural context and nuance
Often concrete attentiveness to someone's comfort. 気を使う can also imply feeling socially tense.